Every relationship begins at the beginning of the rainbow. All relationship is built with its conversations and personal opinions. Along with all the mutual understanding a relationship gets stronger and stronger in time. However as we begin to date online, we have a lot of fairy tales that begin to go on amid the conversations. We begin to live inside a fairy tale, which would later cause several mentality issues to one’s life.
There are several women in this world who have desires of being a mother. Especially women who kept their lives away from social media and spent most of their times with family and siblings is the reason why they have such desires. It is indeed the world’s most beautiful desire. What could beat the happiness of carrying your very own flesh and blood that you lifted in your belly for months without even seeing or hearing their voices. It’s like an unknown relationship, with no respond from the other side, but still you have so much of hope and happiness at your end of the rainbow.
As time passes, women begin to speak with their belly, this is not due to mentality issues, but due to affection that they have in their heart for the beloved and most meaningful part of their lives. Yet there are several other women who even hate to hear the name of a baby, because they are so obsessed with perfecting their lives, and being the center of attention at all times. Even men these days, cannot keep their patience strong as they are also in need to feel the love and joy of carrying their own flesh and blood in their hands. This indeed is a beautiful feeling, especially when you are in the waiting room, and the doctor comes and tells you “It’s a boy” or “It’s a girl” and you just cannot stop smiling and just so curious to go see your beloved wife and your baby.
This is the sign of a perfectly strong relationship that online dating can bring. Even at the end of the rainbow the picture is as perfect as it always was. However, it does not turn out the same way for all couples. Mostly dating that begins online tends to break apart within a period of time. Some serious cases are that it could even break after an engagement. As this happens, both parties, especially the women are left with nothing but a heart that cannot be fixed. They keep thinking over and over about this problem, which makes them suffer with a mentality state of mind.
The reason for this state is from the beginning of their beautiful rainbow, they began to live within a world of fairy tale, a lot of conversations where they spoke about their dreams and fantasies. However when things break apart and all of these fairy tales turns into nothing but fake words some women are unable to bear with this feeling. It’s quiet funny how when we grow up from an infant, until we turn teenagers our parents tell us several stories and fairy-tales, but however as time goes by we learn to realize that it’s just a story. Yet even after knowing all that, we tend to fall for more stories from the ones we fell in love with online, and are later left with a mentality state that leads to a total loss of life.
All those years that you lived, to grow up comes to the end of your rainbow in such manner. Where you even have no idea about who you are, or even of who your parents are. It’s really sad to notice people with mentality state due to online dating as well as other reasons, sometimes we just wish we could be there at least as a friend to guide them through this and help them find their way out. But in the end, we are all just too late. Letting your child learn and listen to fairy tales is not a bad thing, however too much of these stories could build up an unbreakable desire in your child’s heart, which could also lead them into such mentality when they come to realize the cold heart truth one day, that all of those were nothing but illusions. Its best that we keep our children limited from fairy tales and desires for this is the only way we can protect them, otherwise we would just have to lose them.
Not every fairy tale has a perfect ending, for amid all fairy tales there are few characters that are gone forever. Nothing in life comes to us with advantages only, there are several dis-advantages that we should face, in order to find out a perfect ending for our perfect rainbow.